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I would like to write about 3 graces in my life right now.  Not the 3 Graces of Greek Mythology called the three goddesses of nature: Aglaia (brilliance), Thalia (flowering), and Euphorosyne (joy); rather I would speak of three ways that Grace is in my life at this time of the year.

Sunset over the ocean

Sunset over the ocean

From my hours in the classroom studying, I never seemed to be able to fully grasp the concept of God’s Grace.  I just wrestled all the time with any papers that had to be written on the topic. It is considered a rather female topic in the realm of Christian Theology and so the BIG GUYS just about never go deeply into the idea and pass on its relativity to the human spirit to the Pastoral Counseling Gurus.

Now part of the wrestle is because I confused things as a child in my religion and polity classes, such as I always thought I would know God because HIS name was HOWARD.   You know the Lord’s Prayer starts out with “Our Father, which art in Heaven, Howard be thy name…”  (Hallowed is how it is written in the Bible). I had that old prayer memorized a long time before I could read.

One day I met Howard, and I just knew I was wrong!

So Grace was my Great Auntie, who was short and old, and the person who lived next door to my Grandparents with her brother because she did not have enough money to provide a living.  So being told I was full of God’s Grace, just meant to me that the Heavenly Spirit was loving me, no matter what, and this was a good thing, because apparently I was not a very loveable child – asking too many questions and not getting my work done well.

In counseling classes, I learned that Grace is the power within us to love ourselves for who we are, the power to recognize our transgressions giving us forgiveness and “grace as the constructive empowerment for new life and growth.”

I have found turning 60 has provided me with empowerment, growth and forgiveness of sterling silver value.  Grace is the powerful love that enables  me to make changes in my life,  reveals to me my actions, deeds and historic stories which entrap me and entice me to remain static, and then  grace releases me with forgiveness so I can find peace or surrender and explore the “gifts”  I have received.

The second concept of Grace is that of the prayer before a meal.  This ritual began in the desert climes as a cautionary practice to ward off food poisoning.  If you have been out working in the fields or hot sun all day, having you feet washed (face and hands too) was a sign of respect for your hard efforts and a removal of the “muck” of the world.  If you paused and offered prayers and calmness before you began eating, this allowed for your physical body to adjust from fasting mode in the heat to absorbing mode in the shade or coolness.

When my children were growing we sang Grace before meals and conversation.  It brought us focus and drew us together as a family.  We took notice of what was spread out before us.  Our favorites were singing rounds which drew our voices together like a casserole of flavors.

Finally I am thinking about the Grace that is given to me in the form of my talents – gifts.  I am able to write the words upon this form.   I can create something new, beautiful, elegant and gracious.  I have a gift of healing and integrating ideas in new and construction directions. I can meet my needs – rarely alone, so I am able to bring together a team effort.

I think gratitude is the expression of Grace Recognized in the self or the other and the acknowledgement of that recognition – taking notice.

I am gratefully acknowledging the gifts that have been bestowed upon me and my endeavors this season.  I am grateful for the food of the garden, the words of comment, the readers of my efforts, the gleaners of recipes, and the enthusiastic support – it is surely a Gracious Cake that is set before me on this table.  Thank you – each and every one.

Love to hear the stories of your Gracious Cake in this season of Gratitude.

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13 Responses to “Grace”

  1. Jannie Funster Says:

    Such a beautiful post, Patricia. I love where childrens’ minds get to about terms they do not fully understand, I heard once that someone thought it was “Let us spray,” instead of “Let us pray.”

    Grace — I don’t know what I ever possibly did to deserve it, but here I am on this big beautiful planet with all you wonderful people and all I can do is stand in awe of the beautiful gift of life and draw every breath in amazement at what love has brought me here!


    (And off-topic, please forgive with much grace –I fixed those broken links on my current post, those hair and hats ones.)
    .-= Jannie Funster´s last blog ..10 Things I Could Do (But Probably Won’t) Tomorrow =-.

  2. Patricia Says:

    Thank you and you wrote a beautiful comment…Lovely – you are such a dear…

  3. vered | blogger for hire Says:

    I agree with Jannie — this was inspiring to read.

    I am slowly getting better at being grateful. I used to moan and complain too much. :)
    .-= vered | blogger for hire´s last blog ..Stupid Beauty Trends =-.

  4. J.D. Meier Says:

    > turning 60 has provided me with empowerment, growth and forgiveness of sterling silver value
    That’s powerful.

    I especially like how you distilled and packaged your talents.

  5. Patricia Says:

    You are perfect just the way you are and it is never too late to be grateful, which you are with grace….you are discriminating in your taste and output…that is a wonderful way to model for others.
    I admire your skill at gratitude and precision sharing.

  6. Patricia Says:

    I feel powerful and I even took 5 minutes off my 5 miles this week…

    I especially like that you are back! You were very much missed as were your insightful comments. Thank you.

  7. Talon Says:

    Beautiful post, Patricia. You are living proof of aging gracefully.

  8. Mark Says:

    Thank-you for sharing the many faces of Grace in your life! This was a great read.
    .-= Mark´s last blog ..Rule # 6 =-.

  9. Patricia Says:

    Thank you

    Nice to find you here :) and Thank you

  10. Hilary Says:

    Hi Patricia .. I loved those stories of Grace .. and Howard .. it is so interesting the way the Greek and Roman cultures and language are still with us .. and because of the net – we all know more about them.

    Your idea of singing Grace with your children to bring about a gratefulness for the abundance before you, your cleaned hands from the field digging, and your readines to share with all – conjour up lovely pictures of Grace ..

    Thanks – Hilary Melton-Butcher
    Positive Letters Inspirational Stories
    .-= Hilary´s last blog ..Rough Diamonds and Baroque Pearls …. =-.

  11. Patricia Says:

    I am appreciating your graceful comments – Thank you

  12. Jannie funster Says:

    I’ve been known to come in handy in a pinch. ; )

    .-= Jannie funster´s last blog ..10 Things I Could Do (But Probably Won’t) Tomorrow =-.

  13. Patricia Says:

    Thank you Jannie – pinches I need, my email just went belly up again – yikes