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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 22:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cricket-Tammy
I am glad to find your comment today - thank you for coming back You are appreciated and have good words to share.

Media and Father&#039;s are really an icky combo right now, but we have such good blogger dads....I am looking for one who is a teenagers parent...maybe they don&#039;t exist or our too busy?

I think schools are in overload with all they have to teach...and overcome....we used to have dance lessons at school and etiquette too which I thought was boring because I got such huge doses at home!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cricket-Tammy<br />
I am glad to find your comment today &#8211; thank you for coming back You are appreciated and have good words to share.</p>
<p>Media and Father&#8217;s are really an icky combo right now, but we have such good blogger dads&#8230;.I am looking for one who is a teenagers parent&#8230;maybe they don&#8217;t exist or our too busy?</p>
<p>I think schools are in overload with all they have to teach&#8230;and overcome&#8230;.we used to have dance lessons at school and etiquette too which I thought was boring because I got such huge doses at home!</p>
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		<title>By: Cricket-Tammy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cricket-Tammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 21:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is one of those moments where I read this post and I know I left a comment. I even went back and did a history from yesterday...and I was here. I must have gotten distracted and never hit send. 

I do agree that the media has gotten out of hand when it comes to being a father.  What happened to the good old days when &quot;The Walton&#039;s&quot;....were on TV. This is one reason why we don&#039;t watch much TV in our home. 

As far as manners, this is a huge struggle in our home. I am trying with Mitchell and Dylan. It the world of today, there is not a huge amount of attention given in this area. Even the schools barely touch on it. It drives me nuts.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Cricket-Tammys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ACricketInAGarden/~3/2lchhKEfyJc/where-the-heck-have-i-been-some-of-you-have-been-asking-me-this-lately-sending-sweet-little-emails-like-are-you-okay.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In Hiding...that&#039;s all&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is one of those moments where I read this post and I know I left a comment. I even went back and did a history from yesterday&#8230;and I was here. I must have gotten distracted and never hit send. </p>
<p>I do agree that the media has gotten out of hand when it comes to being a father.  What happened to the good old days when &#8220;The Walton&#8217;s&#8221;&#8230;.were on TV. This is one reason why we don&#8217;t watch much TV in our home. </p>
<p>As far as manners, this is a huge struggle in our home. I am trying with Mitchell and Dylan. It the world of today, there is not a huge amount of attention given in this area. Even the schools barely touch on it. It drives me nuts.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Cricket-Tammys last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ACricketInAGarden/~3/2lchhKEfyJc/where-the-heck-have-i-been-some-of-you-have-been-asking-me-this-lately-sending-sweet-little-emails-like-are-you-okay.html" rel="nofollow">In Hiding&#8230;that&#8217;s all</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
		<link>http://patriciaswisdom.com/2009/06/what-good-are-fathers-for/comment-page-1/#comment-6113</link>
		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 18:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tricia,
Thank you for coming on by and commenting - Welcome, welcome...

After not having TV for years, I could not believe how the media was portraying fathers in 2008...awful.  
I love reading these Dad Bloggers and Mommy Bloggers and seeing how they are approaching parenting with style, grace, love and respect - hopeful stuff.

Have you had your 5 year olds breathing checked by a speech pathologist?  My oldest had a tongue thrust and allergies...the SP taught her new ways to eat so that she could breath at the same time - very helpful and removed lots of frustration.

My youngest has a cleft palate - repaired - and she has to eat with her mouth open to breath, she also benefited from SP Therapy and now only things like potato chips send us a bit batty!
Thank you for your comments, they are so appreciated</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tricia,<br />
Thank you for coming on by and commenting &#8211; Welcome, welcome&#8230;</p>
<p>After not having TV for years, I could not believe how the media was portraying fathers in 2008&#8230;awful.<br />
I love reading these Dad Bloggers and Mommy Bloggers and seeing how they are approaching parenting with style, grace, love and respect &#8211; hopeful stuff.</p>
<p>Have you had your 5 year olds breathing checked by a speech pathologist?  My oldest had a tongue thrust and allergies&#8230;the SP taught her new ways to eat so that she could breath at the same time &#8211; very helpful and removed lots of frustration.</p>
<p>My youngest has a cleft palate &#8211; repaired &#8211; and she has to eat with her mouth open to breath, she also benefited from SP Therapy and now only things like potato chips send us a bit batty!<br />
Thank you for your comments, they are so appreciated</p>
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		<title>By: Tricia</title>
		<link>http://patriciaswisdom.com/2009/06/what-good-are-fathers-for/comment-page-1/#comment-6111</link>
		<dc:creator>Tricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:36:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It makes me itch to see how fathers are portrayed in most media, and I&#039;m so glad you&#039;re pointing out some great bloggers who are really nothing like the silly sitcom dads or the horrible monsters in the news. 

About table manners...we work on this diligently with our 5-year-old, because bad manners drive me batty, too, but I can&#039;t seem to get him to eat with his mouth closed. I&#039;m starting to consider taping his lips and only letting him eat with a straw (just kidding) but this for whatever reason is harder than potty training.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tricias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Shoutdaily/~3/frqQvnz07Vg/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Redefining Normal&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It makes me itch to see how fathers are portrayed in most media, and I&#8217;m so glad you&#8217;re pointing out some great bloggers who are really nothing like the silly sitcom dads or the horrible monsters in the news. </p>
<p>About table manners&#8230;we work on this diligently with our 5-year-old, because bad manners drive me batty, too, but I can&#8217;t seem to get him to eat with his mouth closed. I&#8217;m starting to consider taping his lips and only letting him eat with a straw (just kidding) but this for whatever reason is harder than potty training.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Tricias last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Shoutdaily/~3/frqQvnz07Vg/" rel="nofollow">Redefining Normal</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 17:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>J.D.
I too am not watching as much news as I used to and am finding that I am able to be more present.  I appreciate your comments very much and thank you for the kind words on this post.

I feed off your blog -&gt;smart people, amazing books, and mind changing ideas -&gt;  and I work on finding humor everyday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>J.D.<br />
I too am not watching as much news as I used to and am finding that I am able to be more present.  I appreciate your comments very much and thank you for the kind words on this post.</p>
<p>I feed off your blog -&gt;smart people, amazing books, and mind changing ideas -&gt;  and I work on finding humor everyday.</p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jannie,
I think you will need to ask Liara about those dreams, I am not good about dream interpretation...but maybe because you wrote about eating soup with a spoon poised in a certain direction was significant?  
Boom box...your parents are listening to your music - that is spot on!
I had a dream that a woman and baby were wrapped in a colorful blanket on the street and someone set fire to the blanket...I could not get to the fire or assist the people...I had to sit in  a chair for several hours and let go of that one...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jannie,<br />
I think you will need to ask Liara about those dreams, I am not good about dream interpretation&#8230;but maybe because you wrote about eating soup with a spoon poised in a certain direction was significant?<br />
Boom box&#8230;your parents are listening to your music &#8211; that is spot on!<br />
I had a dream that a woman and baby were wrapped in a colorful blanket on the street and someone set fire to the blanket&#8230;I could not get to the fire or assist the people&#8230;I had to sit in  a chair for several hours and let go of that one&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: J.D. Meier</title>
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		<dc:creator>J.D. Meier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 16:54:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful post!

It&#039;s a great reminder to be careful how you form opinions and what information you feed on.  

News has to sell and pain and sensationalism sell the most.  News also generalizes and simplifies.  I feed on way less news than I used to and it&#039;s an interesting shift in what I think about (I feed heavy on smart people, amazing books, and mind changing ideas.)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;J.D. Meiers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SourcesOfInsight/~3/Vh2jkeHkPwg/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Six Sources of Influence&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful post!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a great reminder to be careful how you form opinions and what information you feed on.  </p>
<p>News has to sell and pain and sensationalism sell the most.  News also generalizes and simplifies.  I feed on way less news than I used to and it&#8217;s an interesting shift in what I think about (I feed heavy on smart people, amazing books, and mind changing ideas.)</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>J.D. Meiers last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/SourcesOfInsight/~3/Vh2jkeHkPwg/" rel="nofollow">Six Sources of Influence</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 15:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why  did I dream of nuns and soup spoons last night?

Oh, and here&#039;s a weird one, I also dreamed that my parents were thrilled wth a little boom box they&#039;d bought for $600.  Now, whats up with that dream??

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jannie Funsters last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.janniefunster.com/2009/06/23/10-great-mysteries-of-the-universe/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;10 Great Mysteries of the Universe&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why  did I dream of nuns and soup spoons last night?</p>
<p>Oh, and here&#8217;s a weird one, I also dreamed that my parents were thrilled wth a little boom box they&#8217;d bought for $600.  Now, whats up with that dream??</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Jannie Funsters last blog post..<a href="http://www.janniefunster.com/2009/06/23/10-great-mysteries-of-the-universe/" rel="nofollow">10 Great Mysteries of the Universe</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 01:57:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jannie,
Yep I eat my soup that way...:0  60 years unless I have it in a mug.
I often read blogs while I eat my dinner at my desk...my laptop will only work at the dining table! but I don&#039;t eat and write at the same time or on the dining table.

As a matter of fact I am having a garlic and water tonic right now as I reply to your lovely comments!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jannie,<br />
Yep I eat my soup that way&#8230;:0  60 years unless I have it in a mug.<br />
I often read blogs while I eat my dinner at my desk&#8230;my laptop will only work at the dining table! but I don&#8217;t eat and write at the same time or on the dining table.</p>
<p>As a matter of fact I am having a garlic and water tonic right now as I reply to your lovely comments!</p>
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 21:55:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gee, now that you put it all that way, yes dads have had some pretty bad raps over the years.   Not fair!

Patricia, were you taught to hold the soup spoon steadily horizontal and not turn it 90 degrees, or any degrees, as it approaches your mouth?  And do not slurp of course.  Oh, and dip the spoon away from you whilst gathering your soup.  I learned all that from some 4-H bread-baking girls who learned it from their nun teachers, and I&#039;ve been doing it ever since -- that&#039;s 33 years now.

So I guess reading or doing computer at your table at  a meal is probalby not too couth, eh?   :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jannie Funsters last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.janniefunster.com/2009/06/20/funny-seo-keywords-3/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Funny SEO Keywords, 3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gee, now that you put it all that way, yes dads have had some pretty bad raps over the years.   Not fair!</p>
<p>Patricia, were you taught to hold the soup spoon steadily horizontal and not turn it 90 degrees, or any degrees, as it approaches your mouth?  And do not slurp of course.  Oh, and dip the spoon away from you whilst gathering your soup.  I learned all that from some 4-H bread-baking girls who learned it from their nun teachers, and I&#8217;ve been doing it ever since &#8212; that&#8217;s 33 years now.</p>
<p>So I guess reading or doing computer at your table at  a meal is probalby not too couth, eh?   <img src='http://patriciaswisdom.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Jannie Funsters last blog post..<a href="http://www.janniefunster.com/2009/06/20/funny-seo-keywords-3/" rel="nofollow">Funny SEO Keywords, 3</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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