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		<title>By: Cricket</title>
		<link>http://patriciaswisdom.com/2009/01/doctor-doctor-are-you-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-1470</link>
		<dc:creator>Cricket</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jan 2009 04:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am late arriving on your blog but I read this anyway. This is so terrible. I think a change of doctors is long overdue.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am late arriving on your blog but I read this anyway. This is so terrible. I think a change of doctors is long overdue.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Crickets last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ACricketInAGarden/~3/518962485/i-wanted-to-share-a-video-that-i-found-while-visiting-my-blog-friends-bk-from-symphony-of-love-was-kind-enough-to-allow.html" rel="nofollow">Validation</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 20:50:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dot,
Although I sometimes have to remind my Dr&#039;s to listen to me, I think I have a great team.  ERs stink in the US - I hope we can get a fix on our medical system - it should be for everyone.

You too have had some extraordinarily unsavory ER experiences, they are strange teaching experiences are they not?

Then when you are my age you truly have to find someone to be an advocate that works for you, when others don&#039;t really want to do that for you, but when in pain it is so hard to do it for yourself.

My husband avoids pain, dissent, and medically related things. I don&#039;t believe he will be a good advocate.  

I don&#039;t know if any of my children will move closer, but they will be hard pressed to be a good advocate at their age now...
I am very upset with Insurance Companies...but I am not sure of a solution so I am not ready to rant yet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dot,<br />
Although I sometimes have to remind my Dr&#8217;s to listen to me, I think I have a great team.  ERs stink in the US &#8211; I hope we can get a fix on our medical system &#8211; it should be for everyone.</p>
<p>You too have had some extraordinarily unsavory ER experiences, they are strange teaching experiences are they not?</p>
<p>Then when you are my age you truly have to find someone to be an advocate that works for you, when others don&#8217;t really want to do that for you, but when in pain it is so hard to do it for yourself.</p>
<p>My husband avoids pain, dissent, and medically related things. I don&#8217;t believe he will be a good advocate.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if any of my children will move closer, but they will be hard pressed to be a good advocate at their age now&#8230;<br />
I am very upset with Insurance Companies&#8230;but I am not sure of a solution so I am not ready to rant yet!</p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 20:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jannie,
Make a point of getting your health visit in and make sure your Doctor listens to you.  
I am going to work on some more posts about being your own best advocate at the Dr.&#039;s office coming up

I truly learned a great deal more by this experience and it is not quite over yet...

Thanks for coming by - so good to hear from you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jannie,<br />
Make a point of getting your health visit in and make sure your Doctor listens to you.<br />
I am going to work on some more posts about being your own best advocate at the Dr.&#8217;s office coming up</p>
<p>I truly learned a great deal more by this experience and it is not quite over yet&#8230;</p>
<p>Thanks for coming by &#8211; so good to hear from you.</p>
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		<title>By: Jannie Funster</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jannie Funster</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 19:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know you are not making it up.   Why would you?

What&#039;s up with doctor&#039;s not treating you like a whole human, boy that maddens me.  FOUR HOURS in a waiting room?!!? I thought that only happened in my homeland of Canada.

Your belly pain I do not know what it could be.    Boy, you sure needed that LIFT post after all this junk.

I am very very overdue for a health visit.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Jannie Funsters last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=3657&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;And the ukulele song winner is…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know you are not making it up.   Why would you?</p>
<p>What&#8217;s up with doctor&#8217;s not treating you like a whole human, boy that maddens me.  FOUR HOURS in a waiting room?!!? I thought that only happened in my homeland of Canada.</p>
<p>Your belly pain I do not know what it could be.    Boy, you sure needed that LIFT post after all this junk.</p>
<p>I am very very overdue for a health visit.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Jannie Funsters last blog post..<a href="http://www.janniefunster.com/?p=3657" rel="nofollow">And the ukulele song winner is…</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Dot</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 15:25:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I was not only all by myself in the emergency room that day, but once again I know that each one of us is truly all by themselves all the time. &quot;

Oh my, that&#039;s awful.  Emergency rooms are a nightmare, especially if you&#039;re not dying.  I don&#039;t think they know much about anything that isn&#039;t an emergency.

I once went to the emergency room because I ran up a hill and something popped in my lower leg, and then it hurt so much I couldn&#039;t walk.  I lay on a gurney with my leg hanging over the side because I couldn&#039;t straighten it without severe pain.

The doctor walked in, looked at my history, flipped my leg up onto the gurney, and asked if my lupus was out of control.  I was so mad!

I&#039;m surprised they didn&#039;t make a greater effort to figure out why your blood pressure was suddenly so high.  Regarding pain, I&#039;ve gained back most of the fifty pounds I lost several years ago, and one of the things I discovered it that I hurt a lot more when I&#039;m heavy than I did when I was closer to a normal weight.

I can&#039;t believe they didn&#039;t believe you.  I have a pretty good medical team, but I&#039;ve had to keep making changes as doctors left the area or retired.  I had an internist who didn&#039;t listen to me at all, nor did he listen to my other doctors, and I tried very hard to work with him, asking him to spend more time listening to me and less time leaving the treatment room for a half hour, but he didn&#039;t change enough, so I left him.  

My new internist is somewhat better, but I&#039;ve had to make a point of communications issues with her as well.  If all else fails, I ask my rheumatologist for a referral.  He&#039;s expensive, but he&#039;s really good and so (both expensive and good) are the doctors he sends me to.

It&#039;s an ongoing struggle, as you know, with the insurance companies making them rush as fast as they can just to earn enough to stay in practice, and us wanting them to slow down.  I&#039;d ask a trusted doctor what emergency room offers the best service, if you have a choice.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dots last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/deeperissues/eVcQ/~3/518097233/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Welcome to Washington, Mr. President&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I was not only all by myself in the emergency room that day, but once again I know that each one of us is truly all by themselves all the time. &#8221;</p>
<p>Oh my, that&#8217;s awful.  Emergency rooms are a nightmare, especially if you&#8217;re not dying.  I don&#8217;t think they know much about anything that isn&#8217;t an emergency.</p>
<p>I once went to the emergency room because I ran up a hill and something popped in my lower leg, and then it hurt so much I couldn&#8217;t walk.  I lay on a gurney with my leg hanging over the side because I couldn&#8217;t straighten it without severe pain.</p>
<p>The doctor walked in, looked at my history, flipped my leg up onto the gurney, and asked if my lupus was out of control.  I was so mad!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m surprised they didn&#8217;t make a greater effort to figure out why your blood pressure was suddenly so high.  Regarding pain, I&#8217;ve gained back most of the fifty pounds I lost several years ago, and one of the things I discovered it that I hurt a lot more when I&#8217;m heavy than I did when I was closer to a normal weight.</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t believe they didn&#8217;t believe you.  I have a pretty good medical team, but I&#8217;ve had to keep making changes as doctors left the area or retired.  I had an internist who didn&#8217;t listen to me at all, nor did he listen to my other doctors, and I tried very hard to work with him, asking him to spend more time listening to me and less time leaving the treatment room for a half hour, but he didn&#8217;t change enough, so I left him.  </p>
<p>My new internist is somewhat better, but I&#8217;ve had to make a point of communications issues with her as well.  If all else fails, I ask my rheumatologist for a referral.  He&#8217;s expensive, but he&#8217;s really good and so (both expensive and good) are the doctors he sends me to.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s an ongoing struggle, as you know, with the insurance companies making them rush as fast as they can just to earn enough to stay in practice, and us wanting them to slow down.  I&#8217;d ask a trusted doctor what emergency room offers the best service, if you have a choice.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Dots last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/deeperissues/eVcQ/~3/518097233/" rel="nofollow">Welcome to Washington, Mr. President</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 03:51:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Davina,
I was able to collect my xrays and ct scan and took them to the Chiropractor - he did an adjustment and put an 11mm lift in the heel of one of my shoes....I have now had 2 hours of pain relief on one side of my back...I actually slept 8 hours last night.

Yes! Yes!  working from home and having my Oppositional Definance Disorder Kiddo now mostly on phone contact has truly been a blessing to my sensitive nose an digestive track.  

I think this Internet, wiring problem has truly been stressful and then no phone for days...and all the phone calls and running around to get Internet connection to post my post...no sleep - Exhausting!  

Thank you for your good comments!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Davina,<br />
I was able to collect my xrays and ct scan and took them to the Chiropractor &#8211; he did an adjustment and put an 11mm lift in the heel of one of my shoes&#8230;.I have now had 2 hours of pain relief on one side of my back&#8230;I actually slept 8 hours last night.</p>
<p>Yes! Yes!  working from home and having my Oppositional Definance Disorder Kiddo now mostly on phone contact has truly been a blessing to my sensitive nose an digestive track.  </p>
<p>I think this Internet, wiring problem has truly been stressful and then no phone for days&#8230;and all the phone calls and running around to get Internet connection to post my post&#8230;no sleep &#8211; Exhausting!  </p>
<p>Thank you for your good comments!</p>
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		<title>By: Davina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Davina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 06:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Patricia. I agree with Betsy and Natural. I would get another opinion if I were you. Interesting they said you appeared to be healthy and that the tests were normal. What about the blood pressure level?

Diet and stress can play a role, especially when linked to the pain you are describing in your back. Twice I was tested for a gall bladder attack due to pain just below my sternum, front and back. Usually between midnight and 2am. All tests were normal.

This stopped after I lost my job and began working from home, as did the sensitive digestion. Something else that can trigger this is eating spicy foods and wine. 

I think we&#039;re under more stress than we&#039;re aware of. You know how they say that when you feel thirsty, you are already dehydrated? Well I think that by the time you notice you are stressed, it has accumulated to a nasty level.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Davinas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/01/15/best-in-self-help-me-personal-development/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Self Help Me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Patricia. I agree with Betsy and Natural. I would get another opinion if I were you. Interesting they said you appeared to be healthy and that the tests were normal. What about the blood pressure level?</p>
<p>Diet and stress can play a role, especially when linked to the pain you are describing in your back. Twice I was tested for a gall bladder attack due to pain just below my sternum, front and back. Usually between midnight and 2am. All tests were normal.</p>
<p>This stopped after I lost my job and began working from home, as did the sensitive digestion. Something else that can trigger this is eating spicy foods and wine. </p>
<p>I think we&#8217;re under more stress than we&#8217;re aware of. You know how they say that when you feel thirsty, you are already dehydrated? Well I think that by the time you notice you are stressed, it has accumulated to a nasty level.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Davinas last blog post..<a href="http://www.shadesofcrimson.com/2009/01/15/best-in-self-help-me-personal-development/" rel="nofollow">Self Help Me</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 22:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Natural,
This was the emergency room - my team is all out of town at the same time.

I go to the Chirpractor for my hips, which are the problem and he/she also put my hiatal hernia back in place...healed my torn ligments in my foot.

I think I truly need a good therapeutic massage, but my therapist has been moved away with her family and I have not found another

This is very frustrating experience.  And I think a forewarning</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Natural,<br />
This was the emergency room &#8211; my team is all out of town at the same time.</p>
<p>I go to the Chirpractor for my hips, which are the problem and he/she also put my hiatal hernia back in place&#8230;healed my torn ligments in my foot.</p>
<p>I think I truly need a good therapeutic massage, but my therapist has been moved away with her family and I have not found another</p>
<p>This is very frustrating experience.  And I think a forewarning</p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
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		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 20:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sorry about this patricia.  if your doctors are not listening to you, then it&#039;s time to change doctors, right?

i go to a chiro for my back, but you know what REALLY helped ME.  a full body massage.  i went for 2 weeks without sciatic pain. that never happened before.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Naturals last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/fat-and-happy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Fat and Happy?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sorry about this patricia.  if your doctors are not listening to you, then it&#8217;s time to change doctors, right?</p>
<p>i go to a chiro for my back, but you know what REALLY helped ME.  a full body massage.  i went for 2 weeks without sciatic pain. that never happened before.</p>
<p><abbr><em><abbr><em>Naturals last blog post..<a href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/fat-and-happy/" rel="nofollow">Fat and Happy?</a></em></abbr></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2009 19:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Betsy,
Thank you for your good comments.  I have built quite an impressive team, and never thought they would be unavailable the whole group when I had such a huge need.  This was the emergency room team.  

I have used accupuncture and it is amazing for pain relief.

This morning I am thinking about the &quot;hugs&quot; part of your reply - I had a therapeutic massage after each chiropractic/PT season - 50 in one year, but now have not had a massage since October...I think I am lacking touch.

An apple a day keeps the Dr. away/ A Hug a day keeps the Shrink away!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Betsy,<br />
Thank you for your good comments.  I have built quite an impressive team, and never thought they would be unavailable the whole group when I had such a huge need.  This was the emergency room team.  </p>
<p>I have used accupuncture and it is amazing for pain relief.</p>
<p>This morning I am thinking about the &#8220;hugs&#8221; part of your reply &#8211; I had a therapeutic massage after each chiropractic/PT season &#8211; 50 in one year, but now have not had a massage since October&#8230;I think I am lacking touch.</p>
<p>An apple a day keeps the Dr. away/ A Hug a day keeps the Shrink away!</p>
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